The admission left me unexpectedly quiet.
I didn’t know what to say. I’d spent six months thinking of Richard as a cartoon. A rich jerk in a polo shirt. It had never occurred to me he might be lonely. It had never occurred to me he might be a man who’d lost his best friend and never figured out why.
Richard kept going.
“When you built that wall,” he said, “I was furious. But not about the car. You made me look foolish. In front of the whole street. I didn’t care what that crane cost. I didn’t care about the risk.
Orson told me, three times, to let your friend pull out one section. I knew he was right.” He looked at me. “But I wanted everybody to see that I could get my car out without your help. Without asking you for anything.”
“And look where that got us,” I said.
He nodded.
For the first time since I’d known him, I saw something in his face besides arrogance.
Regret.
But I wasn’t ready to excuse him.
“Richard,” I said, “you made my life miserable for six months.”
“I know.”
“You laughed in my face.”
“I know.”
“You called me old man. You drove through my flower bed. You stuck my note in my mailbox with a smiley face on it.”
“I know,” he said. “I remember.”
“And I shouldn’t have needed to build anything to make you respect my property.”
“You’re right,” he said.
His willingness to agree with everything threw me off. I’d been ready to fight. I’d had six months
of arguments stored up. And he just kept agreeing.
Then he looked directly at my broken porch.
“But you shouldn’t have built it,” he said.
I wanted to argue.
I opened my mouth to argue. I had a hundred reasons ready. Twenty-three times I’d asked him. The tow truck. The police. The notes. The new sod.
Instead, I thought about Fletcher.
You didn’t build that wall to protect your grass. You built it to embarrass him.
I thought about sitting on my porch with my glass of iced tea, watching the Mercedes rise into
the air. I thought about the way I’d felt when it lifted off the ground, the way I’d folded my arms and smiled.
I hadn’t been worried about safety. Not for one second. Orson had warned everybody. Fletcher
had told me to stop it. I’d heard them both.
I hadn’t cared. I’d been enjoying Richard’s humiliation too much.
“You’re right about that too,” I finally said.
It was the hardest sentence I’d said in years.
We stood there quietly beside the wall for a long time.
A car drove past slowly. The driver craned his neck to look at the Mercedes in its concrete cage.
Somebody had posted the crane video online, and strangers had been doing that for days.
Then Richard asked a question.
“How do we fix this?”
It was the first question either of us had asked in six months that wasn’t really about winning.
Over the next few days, we worked it out.
It wasn’t easy. We sat at my kitchen table three evenings in a row with legal pads and calculators
and a lot of coffee. We argued sometimes. We got frustrated. Once, Richard got up and walked out, and I thought it was over. He came back twenty minutes later with a bag of donuts and sat back down without a word.
Richard agreed to pay for restoring my lawn. All of it, including six months of tire ruts and dead patches, the new sod, the flower bed he’d driven through, and the topsoil and seed.
I agreed to take responsibility for the concrete barriers. I’d pay Fletcher’s company for the rental,
the removal, and the chunk of concrete the car had broken off.
We took photographs of all the damage from the crane accident. The porch, the car, the barrier. We wrote down exactly what happened, in order, and both signed it. We agreed to send the
same report to all the insurance companies. Mine, his, and the crane company’s.
Neither of us wanted to make claims we couldn’t back up about who owed what. We’d let the insurance companies figure out the rest.
Then Richard offered to help pay for the urgent repairs on my porch. The temporary support and the stabilization, the twenty-eight hundred dollars, while we waited for the insurance decisions.
I said no at first.
“I’m not taking your money, Richard.”
“It’s not charity,” he said. “It’s my car that hit your porch. Whatever the insurance decides, some of this is on me.”
“And some of it’s on me.”
“Then we’ll split it,” he said. “Half and half. And if the insurance pays you back later, you pay me back. Put it in writing.”
I thought about it.
I accepted, but only after we put it in writing. We typed up a one-page agreement on my laptop and printed it out and both signed it at my kitchen table. Fletcher signed it as a witness. He
seemed to enjoy that more than he should have.
Neither of us was entirely satisfied.
Maybe that’s why it felt fairer than anything we’d demanded before.
The following Monday, Fletcher’s crew came back to take down the wall.
This time, it was done right. A professional tow company came first. They secured the damaged Mercedes and checked that it was safe to move. Then Fletcher used the skid steer to lift out one
barrier section, slowly, carefully. He laid plywood over the grass first, like before.
The tow truck backed up to the gap. They winched the Mercedes out of its cage, across the plywood, and up onto a flatbed.
It took forty minutes. Nobody got hurt. Nothing else broke.
Richard stood on the sidewalk and watched his car being chained down onto the flatbed. The crushed bumper. The shattered back window. The long gash down the side.
There was no cheering crowd this time. Nobody was filming. Nobody had brought lawn chairs.
It was just two tired neighbors standing on opposite sides of a lawn they’d both helped ruin.
After the tow truck pulled away, Richard walked over to me.
He stopped at the edge of my grass again. He didn’t step on it.
“I won’t park here again,” he said.
“I know.”
He hesitated.
“How do you know?” he asked.
I pointed at my lawn. The torn-up sod, the deep ruts, the square of crushed, dead grass where
the barriers had sat for ten days.
“Because next time, I’ll just ask you to move,” I said. “And I expect you to listen.”
He looked at me for a long moment.
Then he nodded.
“Fair enough,” he said.
The repairs took several weeks.
I used Mr. Abernathy in the end. I liked Hal Moreno fine, but Mr. Abernathy had been there first, and I figured I owed him. Richard didn’t argue about it.
Mr. Abernathy put in a new corner post, a real one, a big pressure-treated eight-by-eight. He
opened up the roof and sistered in three new joists and replaced the header. He rebuilt the railing and replaced the two cracked steps. He patched the siding where it had split.
When he was done, you couldn’t tell anything had ever happened. Except that the new railing was
a little brighter than the old wood, and I knew exactly where the break had been.
The insurance questions took a lot longer.
They went back and forth for months. My insurance company. Richard’s. The crane company’s.
There were adjusters and phone calls and letters with a lot of words I didn’t understand. In the end, the crane company’s insurance covered part of the porch, because Orson’s report said the swing was “a foreseeable risk of an unadvisable lift.” Richard’s insurance covered part. Mine
covered a little.
What was left over, Richard and I split, the way we’d agreed.
I paid for everything connected to my wall. Richard paid for the lawn damage. Neither of us tried
to make the other one pay for everything.
The whole thing cost both of us a lot of money.
It cost us both even more pride than we cared to admit.
Emma came home for Thanksgiving.
She stood on the sidewalk in front of the house and looked at the new porch railing and the raw dirt where the lawn used to be.
“Dad,” she said. “That video has two million views.”
“I know.”
“My roommate showed it to her parents. Her dad said, ‘That guy’s a hero.’ Her mom said, ‘That
guy’s an idiot.’”
“They’re both a little right,” I said.
Emma looked at me sideways.
“You’re different,” she said.
“Different how?”
She thought about it.
“You used to talk about Richard like he was a supervillain,” she said. “Now you just talk about him like he’s a guy.”
“He is just a guy,” I said. “That’s kind of the problem. So am I.”
In the spring, Fletcher came over to help me fix the lawn.
We spent a whole Saturday on it. Tilling up the dead patches. Spreading fresh topsoil. Raking it smooth. Laying new sod in the big square where the concrete barriers had been, and in the long
ruts where the Mercedes had come and gone for six months.
Richard paid for every bit of it, the sod, the soil, and the seed. He’d even offered to come help. I told him no, it was fine. He looked a little disappointed.
Around three o’clock, Fletcher leaned his shovel against the fence and wiped his face with a rag. He looked across at Richard’s driveway.
There was a new car sitting there, a dark blue Mercedes, a different model. It was parked neatly in
the circular driveway, right in front of the garage, exactly where it belonged.
“Well,” Fletcher said, “at least you’ve finally got your grass back.”
I laughed.
“Most expensive grass I’ve ever grown.”
Fletcher smiled. Then he stopped smiling.
“Would you do it again?” he asked.
I thought about lying.
After all, Richard had deserved a lesson. He’d treated me like I didn’t matter for six months. Plenty of people online thought I was a hero. Plenty of people still stopped me at the grocery store to
shake my hand.
But then I remembered the sound of the Mercedes hitting my porch. That crack, like a gunshot, when the post split. The sight of that support leaning toward my front door. The young mother across the street clutching her baby against her chest.
If Orson had been a little slower, or a worse operator, or if I’d been standing a few feet to the left…
“No,” I said. “I wouldn’t do it again. I’d find another way.”
“What way?”
“I don’t know,” I said honestly. “Small claims court, maybe. Or a fence. Or I’d just keep calling the police every single morning until he got sick of it.” I looked at my hands, black with dirt. “Anything
where I wasn’t sitting on my porch with a glass of iced tea, hoping a man would be humiliated.”
Fletcher nodded slowly.
“That’s what I figured,” he said.
He picked his shovel back up.
A few days later, I was standing in the front yard in the early evening with the hose, watering the
new sod. It was just starting to knit in. You could see the seams between the pieces if you looked, but they were already turning green.
Richard pulled into his driveway in the blue Mercedes.
He parked it in front of his garage. He got out with his briefcase. He noticed me standing there with the hose.
He stopped. He raised one hand.
I raised mine back.
He didn’t go inside right away.
He walked down to the end of his driveway, to the sidewalk, right at the edge of my grass. He
didn’t step on it.
“It’s looking good,” he said.
“Give it a month.”
He nodded. He looked at the lawn for a while.
“I called Gary,” he said.
I turned off the hose.
“Your old friend? In Arizona?”
“Took me three weeks to find his number,” Richard said. “I called him on Sunday. I told him I was sorry. For the driveway. For all of it. For not saying it twelve years ago.”
“What did he say?”
Richard was quiet for a long moment.
“He didn’t say anything for a while,” he said. “I thought maybe he’d hung up. Then he said, ‘Took
you long enough, Rich.’” He almost smiled. “We talked for two hours. He’s got grandkids now. He invited me down in the fall. Fishing.”
“Are you going to go?”
“I think so,” Richard said. “Yeah. I think I’m going to go.”
He looked at me.
“I wouldn’t have called him,” he said, “if not for all this. If not for you and your stupid wall.”
“It was a pretty stupid wall,” I agreed.
“It was a really stupid wall.”
We both laughed. It wasn’t much of a laugh. But it was real.
We aren’t friends, Richard and me.
Maybe we never will be. We’re too different. He’s still loud. He still wears that watch. He still talks
about his trucks a little too much at the block party.
But we wave. Every morning and every evening. When the big snowstorm came in January, he showed up at my door with a snowblower without being asked. When his garage door opener
broke in February, I went over and fixed it, because I know how to fix things and he doesn’t.
The disrespect is gone. I don’t feel like I need to prove anything to him anymore when I see him. I don’t stand at my window at three in the morning with my jaw clenched.
For six months, I wanted Richard to understand that my property wasn’t his to use.
I got what I wanted in the end.
It took a concrete wall, a wrecked Mercedes, a broken porch, a crane, a crowd of thirty
neighbors, two million strangers on the internet, three insurance companies, and more money than either of us wants to talk about. It taught both of us a lesson.
I was right that he shouldn’t park on my lawn. I was right about that the whole time.
But being right about the problem didn’t make every way of solving it right. I learned that the hard way, standing in my own doorway with broken glass at my feet.
My lawn is green again now.
It’s thick and even and perfect, the best lawn on Maple Hollow Drive. People still slow their cars
down to look at it. Some of them recognize the house from the video. Some of them just like the
grass.
There’s one spot near the corner of the porch, right where the new post is, where the grass grows
a little differently. It’s a little darker and a little thicker. It’s where the topsoil went deepest, where the ground was torn up worst.
I could fix it. I know how. I’ve been fixing grass for twenty-two years.
I leave it alone.
Every morning when I walk out to get the newspaper, I look at that dark green patch by the porch. It reminds me of the afternoon I sat in a chair with a glass of iced tea, waiting to watch a
man get humiliated. And how close I came to losing a lot more than grass.
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